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Self-Love: The Gateway!

The phrase "love yourself first" to some may sound like something selfish or vain but self-love is really the gateway to being able to experience unconditional love. Why do I say that? Well walk with me through this.... It is only once you have truly come to a place where you feel complete and whole as a person (not needing of anything or anyone to complete you) can you be confident enough, fearless enough, stable enough to express unconditional love to someone as well as accept it from someone! Most times when we as humans think unconditional love, we first think of the love a parent has for their child and the reason we make that connection is because it's a situation where we get to witness a certain level of selflessness. If the parent's love is not truly unconditional in its nature and is regulated by the need to be needed, it will show up as the child becomes older and more independent. Remember, unconditional love is a love that is never grudging; its th…

What You Should Know About Low Self-Esteem

Low Self-esteem begins with an illusion of self. Declare today that you are perfectly made! It's time to forget all the things that have been said to you by those who were blinded or are blind. I know they've broken your spirit and made it really hard to see yourself in a different light but you've got to change your language. Go as far as to change your language! Make it so you don't even hear the negativity. Make up your mind only to speak, engage, and recognize the language of love. Anything that doesn't radiate from a place of love can't affect you because it can't reach you! Be an example of what you expect to receive; cleanse yourself of the negative energy you've absorbed. Be sure you're not passing on the torch; not damaging someone else. Heal your heart! Confront anyone that needs to be confronted; not with anger, resentment, or in need of an apology because you've already cashed in on the rewards of forgiveness. Do it that they may be …