My New Man/Woman....Ego Repair? or A Band-Aid?

When we make a decision to rebound as quickly as possible into a new relationship, we forfeit our well-being. One of the reasons we have so many damaged people walking amongst us is because of this very habit. We see it all the time with Hollywood couples, but they are really only a mirror of our society overall.

It appears that this way of being has gone unchecked for way too long. So maybe the question we should ask ourselves at the start of a new relationship is "My New Man...Ego Repair? or A Band-Aid?? If the answer is any of the two....Beware!

Honestly, I feel like the idea that we should never feel any pain or discomfort is unrealistic. I say this because as we know, "anything that is not growing is dead.....and in order to grow, we will experience some kind of pain or discomfort".  Yet for some crazy reason we're all running about trying to cover up our hurts and pain while only creating an invitation for hurt and pain to reside and multiply. If only we understood that hurt attracts hurt; mistrust attracts mistrust; unforgiveness attracts unforgiveness...and on and on. Then maybe we'd have more people looking to heal and sort out their emotions before getting into another relationship. We'd stop looking for qualities in others that we ourselves don't possess and eventually we'd learn what only a few people seem to know....which is, "We don't attract what we want, we attract what we are!"

So let's stop protecting and hiding our well cared for storage bins of hurt and dysfunctions that we keep to satiate the vicious cravings of our newest hurts and dysfunctions, but LET US PUT HURT AND DYSFUNCTION ON NOTICE; LET US INFORM THEM THAT THEY'VE GOT LESS THAN 24HRS TO VACATE THE PREMISES.

And most of all let's create a healthy quiet space where we can heal, grow, and come to know a greater capacity to Love and be Loved!

That being said...I want to encourage you to go within and discover your own personal truth and until our paths collide again, I wish you...


Peace, Love, Life, and Harmony,


NaTisha Renee

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